"steps how to forget your ex-gf/bf"

This is the most hard things to do.. forgetting someone who has been a part of your life..realizing that it is all over.. you will never bring back the past, the joy that she/he brought into your life.. but all the love and joy you felt has been replaced with anger and hatred.. on your mind you just want that girl dead.. or you just want to make vengeance.. But the truth is you just want her back.. then you heard the song of bonjovie "you give love a bad name".. wew! that's a nice song to hear..

the first thing to do is..
1st. Relax.. stay calm for a while.. don't be hasty.. think before doing something stupid.listen to music esp. to bonjovi songs.. =)

2nd.think.. why it ends up that way.. is it your fault and think of the reason why she/he do that..

3rd. if your mind s all set up.. ask her if what's wrong.. if she/he answer you back like he/she never concerned of you anymore . it means you and her need's time to never see each other anymore..

4th. this is the time that you should enjoy yourself and try to forget about her. I know that is hard to do but.. you have no choice.. just keep it in mind that she just need time.. maybe in the future. she when you see each other again she will realized that she just need some space.. then you'll start all over again.. dont think like it's the end of the world if she's gone.. think that she just need some air to breath.. =) but if it takes too long for her to realized that she love you.. in that case dude.. you just need to accept the truth that there will never be you and her anymore.. at least you know that your not meant to be for each other.. you won't be sorry..be happy.. date with other women.. you will enjoyed it..